Thursday, May 23, 2013

The good and the bad of country living



During the last 3 weeks living at Mike’s parents in Grunthal, I have discovered something I was trying to tell myself wasn’t true: my kids love a lot of space and living in the country.  Tell me it isn’t so!!!!

Our house in Niverville is large and so nice in comparison to many in this world yet lately with Mike’s business occupying the basement and the kids being boys, we found ourselves a bit too much in each other’s space over the winter months.  Or maybe it was just the weather?  Anyway, the last 3 weeks my kiddos have embraced the extra space we have here.  The good and the bad, the stitches and the kitties, the runaway child and the getting along, the sharing a room and the yummy food.  ALL OF IT.  Stitches you say?  Runaway???  Let me explain...

Stitches:
Raphael and Vincent are now sharing a room, which leads to many adventures.  Once we close the door at bed time, God and the 2 monkeys ONLY know what trouble happens in there, until one night a child screamed bloody murder and was indeed bloody.  A trip to the ER later to visit a MD from Cape Town, South Africa and Vincent is now the proud owner of 3 stitches, until he has to give them back.  Or just throw them out.  I don’t think I’ll put them in my scrapbook either.  We are only guessing the cause of the cut on his head.  Here are the 2 mainstream theories:
1. A lamp fell on his head after he pulled it down from the 4 foot tall dresser. 
2. He tried to jump from dresser A to dresser B and didn’t quite make it, ending up bashing his head backwards unto dresser A. 
Both of these theories are just as possible now that Vincent cannot be held back by playpen land.  It’s interesting that Raph slept through the whole ordeal, and probably best he didn’t see this “event”.

With all that Vincent graduated to a big boy sponge as the play pen was useless.  You can find him anywhere in the room during the night except for on the sponge.  Open door with caution.

The runaway child:
One of the downside of living here is that it is hard to keep track of the children with such a large yard!!!  We keep our eyes on the imminent danger like the highway, but somehow didn’t notice them walking over to the neighbor as we were making supper.  Now... that "neighbor" happens to be Mike’s brother!!!  We looked and looked and pretended we were not panicked at all (yet we were), until we got a call that Vincent was jumping on their trampoline.  Temptation #1: trampoline.  Duh.  Off course!!!  A Temptation #2: cats.  He follows them everywhere, and they have kittens...  Temptation #3: other little people.  Their cousins live next door too.  You can see how this was too much temptations.  So now we put up a barrier to the path leading to their house and seem that Vincent hasn’t figured it out yet and well Raph knows better than to show him.  Bless his big brother heart.  They have been getting along so amazingly these last few weeks, experiencing all this together and Raph watching over his little fellow sibling.


Shinny:
If we wash things they get shinny.  Thus is the lesson Raphael is learning from his Grandpa who happens to be newly enthralled by cleaning old snowmobiles.  Observe.  Analyse.  Repeat.  Include little people #2 in project.

Birds are in:
Birds have kept Raph & Vincent entertained so much!  They stand by the window and watch the birds coming and going.  They love it!

 


Ticks:
Lesson #1: Ticks suck your blood.  That’s the lesson we have learned so far being in Grunthal.  Also new lesson: God made blood but He also made enough that if they want to suck our blood, we will be ok.  Lesson #2 was taught in order to balance the first lesson and lessen its impact on the biggest little person in our lives.  Are you still following me??

We love tractors:
The reason we learned about ticks in the first place is because of the adventurous side of little people #2, being Vincent.  MUST. EXPLORE. EVERYTHING. Especially tractors!!!!!



Sunday, May 19, 2013

Departure date set :)


May 19th, 2013

As many of you know, our family: Mike, Marie-Eve, Raph & Vincent is heading to South Africa.  The date has now been set and we are leaving Manitoba June 4th!!!!  We will spend one week in Quebec with family and will arrive in South Africa June 13th.

What you may not know, is why we feel called to GO as opposed to sending our money there to help.  I have asked that question in the past, and I know some of you are wondering too!!!  The truth is, more than trillion dollars in aid has been poured into Africa in the last 50 years, and yet extreme poverty remains one of the greatest challenges because what has been forgotten is the people.


It is time to invest in the development of people if we want to see lasting change. Hope Africa Collective aims to do this through holistic personal development.  As people grow in their own personal capacity — in their skills, knowledge, spirituality and understanding — widespread community transformation always occurs.  This is the power of investing in the one, to influence the many.  Sounds like good investment to me!

In just 20 weeks, an individual goes from their introductory meeting with one of the trained staff to acquiring a sustainable job, having learned skills that will last them a life time, and having gotten to know Chris better.  How amazing is that???

Now you see why we are so excited to go and experience how God is changing lives in such practical ways: freeing people from bondage, giving young men and women hope and enriching their relationship with Him.  We have been working towards this so long and can hardly believe that we will be there soon working alongside with Hope Africa!!

The last few weeks have been crazy as we moved out of our house and are currently living with Mike’s parents, but we are so grateful for all the support we have received.  God has been so faithful and we are so excited to see what else He has in store for us once we are in Africa.

All the details of our departure are slowly falling into place, but we continue to covet your prayers are we are constantly dealing with details, paper work, ...  

Raph is having a harder time with adjusting and feels the uncertainty of all this a lot!  We ask that you keep him in your prayers and us as we need much wisdom in parenting those 2 boys!!!  Raph really doesn't like change and this is taking definitely hard on him!  Vincent hasn't slowed down yet with all this and is causing more chaos than ever.  We apologize to all people affected by tornado Vincent for what he has already broken.  Nothing contains him, not even his play pen.  Not even large pots.



Have a blessed long week-end.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

New chapter for the Fast

Today marks a new Chapter in our life, and as I sit and ponder on the good & the bad and all of the in betweeners of the past 2 weeks, I can hardly believe we've survived it all.  Here is the recap:

The delicious: April 21st we had a coffee night @ the NCF church in Niverville where we had a chance to share about the ministry we will be doing in Cape Town with friends and family all while eating delicious baked goods.  Thank you to all who came, and those who made this evening possible (Touch of Glass, kitchen ladies, mission team, Darrell photocopying skills & the ladies who made the goodies!!!).  

The miracle: ALL items & boxes got packed, numbered and recorded in computer, thanks to the brilliant and wonderful (don't forget all capable) Vi Snaith.  I couldn't have done this without her genius systems, her Africa packing expertize, her love for sucking Zipbloc bags (with a vacuum) and everyone who donated the most precious packing supplies.

The hilarious: During the last hours of packing, Vi and I became even more delirious than we already had been previously...  Please understand this took hundred of hours!!!!!!!  So we wrote a ODE to packing supplies and I'm sure you will enjoy it:

"Dear Danae, Kayloma & Heather, how lovely are your wrappings, oh virtuous women though art, soft and squishy are your bubbles, supple & malleable are your coverings, how majestic & mighty are your cardboard. Ye, though we pack through the darkest hours, we will fear no breakage, no leakage, no harm will befall our treasured bounties for Mika, Jackie, Sylvia, Chris, Rose & Jason's Rubbermaids are our fortress."



The good: We have finally moved all our belongings to either the garbage (thank you Bristol), to the recycling (GREEN family we are), MCC (thank you to all the volunteer for this incredible ministry), storage (thanks to the Buhler family), Marchand's house (special thanks to their dogs for allowing this nerve-wracking operation), Snaith's house (my dressers already feel at home), Grunthal (Mike's parent's house) or in our "Africa suitcases". 

The BEST: April 27 came upon us, and able bodies showed up at our doors, after having being screened extensively by Darrel.  We separated them into crews, depending on their capability & skill levels.  Turns out most failed at reading my sticky notes, and even the color coded method was lost on them....

That aside,  we praise the LORD for friends & family.  We are so blessed.  I bet I would have shed a tear if I hadn't been so busy trying to keep all these men in line.  It took 90 minutes to empty our house and left me feeling dizzy!  Once the men had finished unloading to all the different locations, we ate some pizza on the floor and praised the Lord this part was over.

The Bad: The chaos of moving half way across the world with 2 little kids isn't something to be messed with.  It will not be laughed at, mocked, or taken lightly.  This is serious business and definitely not for the faint of heart.  I've gotten more bruises in 4 weeks of packing than a clumsy child learning to walk and have said more insane things than ever before.  I overworked this body into thinking I'm much older than 28, leaving it with a limp, dark circles and complete exhaustion!  Mike lost his voice and is feeling sick, and both the boys have runny noses.
  
The bonus part: 7 ladies, 1 man, 1 child - came to my house on April 29, equipped with pails, cleaning supplies & food.  This could have been such a sad time for me as we have lived in this house 9 years, laughed and cried, gone through life, but the Lord turned this sadness into laughter as these wonderful people shared this "burden" with me and showed me the hands and feet of Jesus: ONE MORE TIME.  Thank you Lord.  One April 30, Gil Leclerc showed up with his killer carpet cleaner, rescuing my poor body from more abuse and leaving the house smelling and looking better than ever!!

The HOLD your BREATH part: I just checked online and our Visa application has arrived back into our Niverville mailbox, we will go pick them up today.  Hoping it's a YES this time :)))

The worse but still kindda hilarious: Yesterday I was so overwhelmed leaving our house for the final time after a good day of scrubbing and I backed up into our BBQ.  Good thing it was junk anyway.  Thus is life, but it opened the gate of tears & emotions I had so carefully held back to that point.  But now that this flood is "over with", I'm feeling ready for the next chapter. We've been so blessed by countless people surrounding us and helping us in this transition time, we couldn't begin to thank them all.